Be Picky About Your Clients and Who You Work With

Be Picky About Your Clients and Who You Work With

Do you say yes to every client that wants to work with you? Not only will this cause you to be overwhelmed but also it will burn you out, the simple solution is being picky about your clients.

Yes, you should be picky about clients

When you say yes to a client that isn’t a good fit, you may have to say no to your dream client.
Now, I know what you are thinking, I need clients.
But there’s a catch, you have only so much available space in your online service-based or coaching business.
What most people don’t realize we need to keep our yeses for the right people.
Those right people will refer us, to other right people that light us up.

You Can Only Service So Many Customers

But here's the thing if you do not figure out WHO you want to work with.

Who are you trying to help, you'll get stuck wanting to help everybody.

You can only service so many people when you’re just one person in your business.

Guess what happens, it leaves you drained, feeling overwhelmed, and wondering why the heck starting a business showed like a good idea.

Being Picky About Clients Reduces Your Stress

The problem is working with the wrong clients will stress you out.

You’ll never truly make them happy if you both are not on the same page.

No matter how many hoops your jump through for them.

What do you do if they ask for a refund or never pay the invoice on work that has been done?

I speak from experience, it sucks not getting paid for all the hard work you put into a client.

Worst yet, if your gut was screaming no and you still said yes.

Be Picky About Your Clients

Be Selective

I know I'm not the only one that preaches this, stick with me here, because you want to be able to invest in people.

Be selective, you want to work with clients that understand your worth.

When I realized who I wanted to work with it caused me to love running my business.

And the best part is when you appreciate your clients, they appreciate you right back, and that’s the best energy to live in.

Here's the bottom line when you're not in alignment with your customers it drains you.

Agree with me or disagree with me from my experience I’ve found the penny pinchers suck your energy and are NEVER happy no matter all your efforts.

You can look at it like this too

Don't be selfish because you need a client, let them go find an online service provider or coach that is a better match for their needs and expectations.

If they aren’t your dream client, let them go find a service provider that be over the moon excited to work with them.

 

Be Picky, your clients should be a great fit for you

I promise God will test you, right before your ready to breakthrough, he will send you a test to challenge if you are truly ready to breakthrough or if you'll choose to stay low.

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Little Side Note

When we take on every client we may need to do some inner work. Here is a post about imposter syndrome that could be beneficial.

Imposter Syndrome, that feeling of who am I to...

✁ Just a Snippet

Here is just a snippet of the important points, you know for the skimmer in you. 🤪

  • You need to be picky with who you work with as an online service-based or coaching business.
  • But here's the thing if you do not figure out WHO you want to work with. Who are you trying to help, you'll get stuck wanting to help everybody.
  • If you’re not picky about your client, guess what happens, it leaves you drained.
  • I know I'm not the only one that preaches this, stick with me here, because you want to be able to invest in people. You want to work with clients that understand your worth.
  • Working with your dream clients caused you to love running my business.
  • And the best part is when you appreciate your customers, they appreciate you right back, and that’s the energy to live in.
  • Here's the bottom line when you're not in alignment with your customers it drains you. Agree with me or disagree with me from my experience I’ve found the penny pinchers suck your energy and are NEVER happy no matter all your efforts.
  • I promise God will test you, right before your ready to breakthrough, he will send you a test to challenge if you are truly ready to breakthrough or if you'll choose to stay low.
  • If you're saying yes to clients that aren't a good match for you, you're saying no to your dream client. Because you low energy will not be attracting them.
  • We need to keep our yeses for the right people. Those right people will refer us, to other right people that light us up.
  • If you need to gain clarity on who you should be working with, join the waitlist for the clarity muse membership. It's a community of service providers getting clear on who they serve, what they offer, and who they are as a business owner.
How do you gain clarity in what to offer as a service provider?

How do you gain clarity in what to offer as a service provider?

Friend, do you have clarity in your offer as a service provider? What I mean is, do you have your service offering set up in complete done for you packages, or is it trading dollars for hours?

I have notebooks filled with ideas of all the different offers I could create. The keyword is could. Now, I know what you’re thinking why would you not want to create different offers you could reach more people?

In the past, I would have whipped it out. These days I take it a bit slower and think it through if the offer is truly in alignment with my team and values.

Our offers are unique to each of us

Here is the thing, when I started out I was scared that my offer would be too similar to other service providers. Here’s the truth our offers are unique to each of us.

Why should something easy, get so hard?

But, why is clarity in your offer as a service provider feel so hard when it should be easy?
It's not just coming up with the idea for the offer to provide to our clients.
Once we figure out what to offer we have to get clear on what the offer actually entails.

Things to consider

What are the things to consider with your offers? Will the offer be based on a bucket of hours? I think you’ll agree with me when I say, that's the easiest and the best place to start.
The problem is hourly doesn't allow for growth and leads down a path of burnout. The trading dollars for hours.

So what’s the solution?

Our offers need to be based on an outcome we are providing, the finished service is the true value.
Let me elaborate, a business owner makes the decision to outsource to a service provider because they want to focus on the things that only they can do. Service providers allow them to do that.

clarity in your offer as a service provider

Let’s find clarity in your offer as a service provider

Consider, what service you love to provide that you can package up? It’s one that follows a repeatable process each and every time.
Here is an example, if you love social media and it’s been your lead source how can you make that into an offer?
More than likely your repeatable process is; build your content calendar, organize your post in your content library, figure out our calls to action, picking and creating graphics, tracking analytics.
The trick is to figure out those repeatable steps you do to move from start to done.

But how do you pick your offer?

This one is generally right in front of you, but because you’re so good at it you don’t release that not everyone is. I know funny, right.
Is this your offer? If not, why?

The next big question is

I know what your thinking, how do I figure out what to charge? How much time, energy and effort are you saving your future client with your package?
Let's consider two things business owners will pay for the outcome, how valuable do they perceive your offer in relation to their time, energy, effort, and what do you want to make in your business?
The solution is simple, you need to look at your cost for providing the service. How many hours will it take you to do all that work and simply add on a time buffer. It was suggested to me when I started to add 15% to each of my packages. When you provide strategy with your packages make sure to bump that percentage up.

The Money Game

With my OBM certification, Tina has you play what she calls the money game. The money game is one of my favorite things to do.
It’s a simple spreadsheet, showing how the package pricing breakdowns down toward your revenue goals.

Did this get your wheels turning?

Now, this is important. Do it soon and redefine the offer as you go. Take that messy imperfect action.
Do your research on different types of offers and pick what works for you.

Little Side Note

If you'd like to get some money game magic, book a clarity breakthrough.

Here is the link.

As a heads up, spots are limited.

✁ Just a Snippet

Here is just a snippet of the important points, you know for the skimmer in you. 🤪

  • Clarity in your offer as a service provider is different for all of us.
  • Something so easy feels so hard.
  • It’s not the idea for the offer that can be the stumbling block.
  • Figuring out what we want to package in our offer can take a bit of time to get clear.
  • While hourly is the best place to start, long term it leads to burnout.
  • Offers are based on an outcome.
  • Start with what you love, how can you turn that into an offer.
  • The offer needs to be repeatable with a clear start and finish.
  • When pricing the offer consider the time energy and effort you’re saving your client to focus on the things that only they can do in their business.
  • Break down the numbers to figure out how they align with your revenue goals.

 

Need help with creating your offer book a clarity breakthrough session.

Time For A Healthy Lifestyle Reset

Time For A Healthy Lifestyle Reset

It’s time for a healthy lifestyle reset, being the CEO of a growing business and team it’s essential that I stick to a healthy lifestyle. This is what gives me the motivation and brainpower needed to run a business.

How can I tell it’s time for a healthy lifestyle reset

This month it's time to turn my focus toward resetting to a healthy lifestyle. Not that I’ve gotten crazy off track, but I can tell my creative wheelhouse, my energy level, and focus are not at their normal levels.

It’s funny how simple it is to get off track and how simple it is to get back on track with a little awareness.

Here are the things that I’m doing to bring my awareness back to a healthy lifestyle.

Creating a healthy lifestyle vision board

You must be wondering, why start with a healthy lifestyle vision board. It’s a visual trigger of the reset that I’m working towards.

It puts my why into images.

Creating a healthy lifestyle daily routine

Here’s the big secret to creating a healthy lifestyle daily routine, track it.

It boils down to this, what gets measured gets improved. It causes us to pay attention.

The problem is, it takes a bit of time to keep track of healthy habits. Something we do not feel like doing this.

If you’ve read The Slight Edge you know it is just as easy to do something as it is not to do something.

Do you feel any guilt if you actually do the thing?

I’m sure you’re with me on this one, no we do not feel guilty if we do the thing. It’s when we don’t do the thing that takes up more mental energy.

Nike says it perfectly, Just Do It.

Time For A Healthy Lifestyle Reset

Tracking my healthy lifestyle reset

Laying it all out in Notion allows me to keep tabs on my progress on my reset. Cause it bears repeating what you track improves. Plus, I’m in love with Notion and its flexibility.

Curious what I’m resetting this month? Here are my areas that I’ve selected for my healthy lifestyle reset. These are the areas that are important to me. Yours my friend may be different.

Time For A Healthy Lifestyle Reset

 

Each one of these has a good, better, best goal.

To explain, Eat Veggies has a good goal of 2 servings, better 3 servings, and the best 4 servings. Even if I reach my good goal I’ll get to check off the box.

Time For A Healthy Lifestyle Reset

Inside each habit is another checklist of which level of goal I reached.

How to get motivated to be healthy

While this is different for all of us, this is the content I consume to get back on track.

Podcast:

Corinne is a bit colorful with her language, but her content is amazing: Losing 100 Pounds

YouTube:

Feelin Fabulous With Kayla 

Downshiftology 

Pinterest:

Healthy meals Pinterest board

Health Pinterest board

All the Pinterest Boards

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Little Side Note

Download Notion for free and play around with it for yourself. https://www.notion.so/product

✁ Just a Snippet

Here is just a snippet of the important points, you know for the skimmer in you. 🤪

  • Life has been very busy and I'm not anticipating that it's slowing down anytime soon. It's time for a healthy lifestyle reset.
  • This month it's time to turn my focus toward resetting to a healthy lifestyle
  • Creating a healthy lifestyle vision board
  • Laying it all out in Notion allowing me to keep tabs on my progress. What you track improves.
  • Switching gears from learning about marketing for the month and filling my brain with health-related topics.