Do you know what will happen if you don't ask for what you want? Is the fear of rejection holding you back from asking for what you really want? As I tell my children, if you don't ask, the answer will always be no. While at the same time, the comfort zone feels safe and rejection-free. It doesn't help you succeed and get what you want in your life and in your business.
Do you know what else you're doing?
You're not betting on yourself. You do not believe in yourself and your ability to get a yes.
By choosing to make the decision for someone else, you are also not allowing yourself to learn from failure. Learning from mistakes is one of the best ways to grow in life and business.
And what else are you doing if you don't ask for what you want?
You are automatically telling your brain to stop looking for those types of opportunities because it would be a waste of time. Because you're not even willing to try, the answer will always be no.
You have to bet on yourself.
You need to at least try and fail.
As a result of your failure, you become better.
That failure is your feedback or a redirection to where you actually need to be heading. If you're afraid of failure, then you'll never succeed.
This is because you will never take any risks. And without taking risks, you won't learn anything at all. In other words, your fear of rejection will keep you in the failure loop. If you fail to learn, you'll keep failing.
Trust me; I get it.
It's not my first rodeo. I've made the decision countless times not to ask for something I wanted for fear of rejection.
Putting yourself out there for fear of rejection and getting a no is difficult. Not believing in yourself is a struggle too.
Which one do you want to pick?
Because one of those hard choices is liable to lead you to not being content with yourself and with who you are as a person.
In the long run, not being content with yourself is even harder, in my opinion.
Not being content with yourself, friend, brings on a whole new level of dissatisfaction and unhappiness.
So let me ask. Where is fear of rejection showing up in your life?
Where in your life and in your business aren't you even throwing your hat in the ring? You are not even attempting to get a no, which also means you're not even attempting to get a yes.
Consequently, where did you take away the possibility of even getting a yes?
Because you didn't even try, whatever it is you're striving for, you'll never achieve it.
You will never achieve it if you don't have the confidence to at least put yourself out there to get rejected. Once again, that rejection is gold.
It allows you to see where you need to improve, to turn a no into a yes.
It builds up your confidence with each rejection you receive.
The answer will always be no 99% of the time.
When I was in college, I worked as a telemarketer.
I know, super glamorous, right?
In my experience, ten no's usually lead to one yes.
So change your perspective. Change your perspective on no, and ask for what you want.
The answer will always be no unless you ask for what you want.
Here's how to look at it. With this no, I'm one step closer to getting a yes. Instead of looking for a yes, I want you to seek a no. Taking into account, the no will help you better craft your message.
Or to understand who would be a better fit or a connection for you and your business.
✍️ So go ahead, tell me down in the comments what is a no that you have been too hesitant to put yourself out there for fear of rejection.
💗 Because I would love to be able to hear it, tell me, what is keeping you from your heart's desire?
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