Bunch of Obligations
Do you find that you say “yes” to things that do not matter to you? You fill your calendar with a bunch of obligations that you feel you should do, but the only real joy comes when you get to check it off your list.
When really in the end your life and business did not benefit from your “yes” out of obligation. In fact, it provided little to no value at all. Really it was wasted time that you’ll never get back.
A reminder that I give to myself and to my clients is when you say “yes” out of obligation you’ll be forced to say “no” to what matters and what should be prioritized first in your life.
Now, I know what you’re thinking, that’s great Michele but how do I come up with an easier system on what should be prioritized?
What should be prioritized
Here’s the big secret. You need to determine what will always get your yes. That is how you determine what is a priority and what needs to be a no.
I love, love, love personal development. Podcasts, books, YouTube videos give me all the personal development.
In fact, one of my guilty pleasures is watching YouTube videos on anything in my perception that will make me a better person. My binge list includes productivity, time management, mindfulness, living a minimal life, cleaning (yep I like to watch videos on cleaning hacks), the list goes on and on.
My point is that personal development is on my list of priorities, however, it does not come before my husband, children, my faith, my business.
On A Ladder
In the book, Take Back Your Time: The Guilt-Free Guide to Life Balance, Christy Wright talks about how most of us see our priorities on all one level. She sees it as a pyramid. It’s funny because I see my own priorities on a vertical ladder or steps. The more important it is in my life the higher on the ladder it climbs.
How do you view your priorities? Are they all on the same playing level or do you have a hierarchy?
If you do not have a hierarchy I encourage you to come up with what should be prioritized. When you do this it makes it much easier to know what needs to get your “yes” and what needs to get your “no”.
Do you need help with finding balance in your life and business? I’d welcome you to apply to work with me. Here is a link to my Life and Success Coaching inquiry form.
Little Side Note
✁ Just a Snippet
Here is just a snippet of the important points, you know for the skimmer in you. 🤪
- Oh, but the joy that comes from checking boxes off the to-do list, feels so good. Am I right?
- You fill your calendar with a bunch of obligations that you feel you should do, but the only real joy comes when you get to check it off your list.
- A reminder that I give to myself and to my clients is when you say “yes” out of obligation you’ll be forced to say “no” to what matters and what should be prioritized first in your life.
- You need to determine what will always get your yes.
- My point is that personal development is on my list of priorities, however, it does not come before my husband, children, my faith, my business.
- How do you view your priorities?
- Are they all on the same playing level or do you have a hierarchy?
Private Coaching
Why do I believe in the power of private coaching?
Because it is truly life-changing. When your coach asks you that mind-blowing question that suddenly allows you to see what you've been missing all along that was literally right in front of your face.
You just need someone with a different perspective to help you see it.
Are you ready to experience life from a different perspective?
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